An IG user by the name Mackenzie Sailer, mother to 2 boys, recently posted the emotional reaction of her 2 boys when she left at bedtime to go for a movie, leaving the husband in-charge. The husband recorded the two boys’ weepy reaction, as their mother is stepping out for a few hours. The younger one seems to be distressed, as he sticks out his lips to weep. Sharing the same, the father (not visible in the video) says, “She’s coming back, she’s going for a movie. Don’t give me that lip. She is just going to a movie. She is allowed to go to a movie.” Take a look… The video sent the internet into a tizzy, as it highlighted the emotional attachment boys have with their mothers, even if they have very involved fathers. Many users commented on that. One user said, “Don’t give me that lip”.. *puts lip out even more* lol!”, while another one added, “Sweeties!! The lip. My kids get me every time with it. 🤭”. Another mother added, “It doesn’t change btw 😂 mine still pop out the lip and ask where I am. This is the sweetest ever 🫶🏻”, while another one said, “Omg this is simultaneously the funniest and cutest video ever!! Haha mama’s boys 💯 😍”Why small kids stick to their mothersYoung children tend to hold their mothers closely for reassurance, although their fathers show complete love and participation. The preference exists because of biological factors, regular daily activities and emotional security, which mothers usually offer to their children. Parents who want to build positive relationships with their children need to understand these typical family dynamics.Biological and early bondsMothers establish their first deep bond with their infants through the process of pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding, which triggers oxytocin release known as the “bonding hormone” to create a stronger connection. Infants learn to recognize their mother through her womb scent, voice and heartbeats which helps them develop an instinctual sense of safety. Research indicates that formula-fed infants will seek their mother first during times of distress, because they consider her their main protective source.The evolutionary trait helps survival because throughout history mothers took care of their children, while fathers defended them. Research from 2017 shows that toddlers express their emotions through crying when they are with their mothers, but they hide their pain from their fathers during comfort sessions. Men focus on preventing problems and building confidence, which supports the soothing efforts of mothers.Time and routine matter mostYoung children spend more time with their mothers throughout the day, because she cares for them by feeding them, changing their diapers and putting them to bed, which helps them develop trust and familiarity. Children view their mothers as their primary source of dependable care, because they seek her help for all their requirements. Men who work long shifts at work become playful companions instead of their typical role as providers of comfort.Emotional safety with momChildren experience their highest sense of safety when they reveal their feelings to their mothers, because these women possess exceptional abilities to understand and provide comfort. The characters exaggerate her distress, because they believe she will always accept them without condition. Children hide their tears from their fathers because they must appear strong while they learn about their gender identity.Research shows that mothers tend to score better in acceptance and involvement, when studying teenagers since this pattern becomes evident during their early years. Her emotional development advances through her social interactions, which she has with other people.Fantastic dads still shine differentlyThe bond between “fantastic” fathers develops through their shared activities of playing together, exploring new things and solving challenges, which helps their children develop resilience. Children require their mother to provide them with security through nurturing, while their father should lead them into adventurous experiences which help them develop independence.
